Old dogs are the best!

There’s a charm, an utter delight, to be found in our old dogs.

Such loyalty and devotion down so many years demands equal loyalty and devotion from us.

And it's in reciprocating this love that you can find the deepest pleasure in giving - not in receiving, as you may be led to believe from all the noise and clamour around you!

Looking after your old friend is a pleasure, not a chore.

And a few simple thoughts may help you keep him or her fit and well for as long as possible.

  1. The first thought, handed down to me many years ago by Bing Bellamy of Sealight Border Collies fame, was “Never leave an old dog wet.” Many of her dogs were kennelled so this was doubly important.

My old guy Rollo who you can see above - who sleeps indoors in comfort, and who’s 15½ now - would love to lie about on the wet grass. Nope! He’s not been allowed to stay outside in the wet for quite a few years now.

2. Similarly, make a comfortable bed for them. As many Border Collies do, Rollo eschewed comfy beds for years, always preferring the floor. But he’s always had the choice. And the mattress-style bed he has now has found favour with him, and although he normally starts the night on the floor, he shortly afterwards transfers to the bed for night-long comfort for his old bones.

3. For diet, my dogs have always been largely raw-fed, so no change is required. Rollo still has a good set of gnashers and has no difficulty crunching bones. I do think this is down to the raw feeding anyway.

Keeping an eye on your old dog’s poo is important to remember. You can get a lot of warning of change here. Raw-fed poo is small, very firm, and dry. Good stuff.

My dogs tend to make old bones - 14-16 years old - and I put this down to plenty of carefully-regulated exercise to suit the individual, a great varied diet, and keeping away from meds and routine treatments as far as possible!

 

Old age kicks in

4. A lot of dogs lose their hearing as they age. And Rollo has been pretty deaf for a couple of years now. He can still hear a high-pitched shriek or whistle (he’s lost the lower register) and chooses to stay very near me on walks, so he can still get plenty of off-lead exercise, snuffling, and mooching about.

5. His eyesight is also diminishing. But it doesn’t offer any problems at this stage and he can still see plenty. His long gaze into my face, accompanied by his ever-waving tail, show me that he can still see the important things in life - my love for him.

6. One thing it’s essential to keep up is stimulation! Whether that’s plenty of exercise or only a little, your old dog just needs to move a bit and enjoy the outside world - sniffing, mooching, snuffling - new scents and sounds, and to revisit favourite places. The beach is a firm favourite with Rollo, so we make sure to include beach visits regularly. These activities are all vital to keep his brain active and his days fun. It’ll also help keep those joints moving longer.

7. You’ll probably get to know your vet a bit better at this stage of your dog’s life. So be sure your vet is prepared to give your dog the extra time and care he may need.

There are new developments all the time, and a good vet will be aware of these, and can alleviate the pain of stiff old bones, perhaps giving your dog a new lease of life - those extra months or years that will be so precious!

I have found too that the services of a Canine Massage Therapist, or perhaps even a Physio, can also help greatly.

And at the end, if you can have your vet come to your house, rather than subject your very very old dog to one last distressing journey, that would be the best solution all round.

 

7. You have to allow extra time for your old fella, or old girl. Just a bit of extra time to negotiate corners, letting him become aware you’re wanting to get past, help on stairs, perhaps adding baby-gates to ensure he’s safe, making him feel as included as he’s always been.

I’d like you to read this article too: Celebrate your Dog while you still have her

 

And do tell us in the comments - how are you getting on with your dear old dog?

 

So you want to become a dog trainer?

You love the life you can enjoy with your dog, now you know how you can teach her in a totally kind and loving way!

And you’d love to help other people improve life with their dog too, so that both they and their dog can have a happier life.

So many of you would make great dog trainers - and so many of you think you can’t do it.

 

Why?

We have a mechanism in our brains that tends to stop us doing what we know we really want to do.

We get caught up in thoughts of insufficiency, not-good-enoughness, inability to run a business, can’t manage tech … all these things are just your brain reassuring you that staying in your box and forgetting your dream is the right thing to do.

But it ain’t!

If you truly want to devote your life to helping dogs and their owners, you need to say, “Thank you, Brain, but I’ve got this!”

And do it!

See how things changed for EB once those misgivings were pushed aside:

“The support from you all has been great for my confidence and you are so encouraging Beverley, that your belief in me has made me believe in me!” EB

 

Support all the way

I love helping gifted force-free dog trainers bring their gifts to the world! 

I love knowing this is my legacy to the world - so that those who like what I do can continue to teach people and their dogs in the way that I have developed and that resonates with so many.

“Thanks for what you do for dogs and their people!” CT

You are a real blessing to me and many others!” DB

“Things were going from bad to worse with my dog. Thank goodness I found Beverley whose kind, insightful and exceptionally effective methods are simply the best!” LA

 

 

Want to teach your dog an instant recall?

Do you want an instant recall?

I don’t think there’s any sane dog-owner who’d say, “Er, no thanks, I don’t care whether my dog comes back or not.”

Everyone wants an instant recall!

 

And an instant recall is not hard to teach - in fact it’s great fun to teach! But the operative word here is TEACH.

Your dog does not arrive with an instant recall installed. Whether a tiny puppy or an older dog, he does not have any idea what you want … until you teach him!

So yelling his name, nicely or crossly, stamping your foot, blowing a whistle - none of this will work until you teach him what it means and why he will WANT to do it.

[HINT: if he doesn’t want to do it, you’re wasting your breath yelling and all the rest! This is a two-way thing.]

 
 

The first step

So how do you achieve this wonderful Nirvana state of calling your dog, just once, and having him thunder back to you with wild enthusiasm?

The very first step is to teach him that you are nice to be with, you are reliable, and it’s worth his while to keep a close eye on you, and respond when you ask.

This isn’t done in a soggy field, as your dog hurtles off, nose to the ground, on some chase or trail.

This happens at home. In your kitchen. Many times a day. It’s what I call “All Day Training”.

 

 
 
 

All Day Training

We want to teach our dogs to respond to us every time, not just when they feel like it, or when they have nothing better to do.

And that’s why we need to build up this deep history - that every time they respond to us, they get some kind of reward.

To start with, by far the easiest and most effective reward is to give a treat. Instantly, as soon as their head starts to turn toward you.

And the key is that this reward must be given EVERY time you ask, and they do.

No exceptions!

If you want it to work it has to work every time, without fail. As soon as you start to demand compliance with no semblance of a reward being forthcoming, you are starting to hammer nails into your Recall coffin.

 

The first step in detail

So your first step is to make your dog’s name precious. Whenever she hears her name, she stops in her tracks and responds to it - whether that means turning round in front of you, or racing back from 50 yards away.

And I go into detail into how you can precisely and positively make your dog’s name precious to her - in two places for your convenience!

The first place is here in Here Boy! Step-by-step to a stunning recall from your Brilliant Family Dog which you can find in ebook or paperback at Amazon and in audiobook direct from the author right here.

 

And the second is here in our

free Workshop

on getting your dog to LISTEN!

 

 

 

Choose your poison! And let me know how this game transforms your relationship with your puppy or dog, and you can see it setting you on the road to having that stellar recall you’d love!

 

For some dogs, love is not enough

There is a fashion in dogs - well there are a few fashions, but let’s stick to this one for now - that because you have a big heart, and go all gooey inside at the thought, you can pluck a dog off the streets of some foreign land, park it in your living room, and everything will be FINE.

Just seeing that written down shows how nonsensical this may be!

If you adopted a really, really difficult child, one who’d been abused, abandoned, kicked, starved, injured . . . and all the rest, would you expect this child to settle immediately into your family, enjoy school, and never give any problems of any kind?

Of course not!

You’d know that you’d need specialist training, help from professionals. That this child may wring your heart out and leave you desperate.

You would not expect him to fit seamlessly into what we may consider a civilised, well-regulated, life.

 

What’s sauce for the child is sauce for the dog!

So your damaged street-dog, captured, uprooted from somewhere he knows (albeit possibly a very unpleasant place), transported by strangers thousands of miles in the back of a lorry, is likely to be a bundle of nerves when he arrives in your country.

Add to this that many of the people doing this rehoming have zero training in how to manage damaged dogs, and may resort to yet more brutality and chastisement . . .

When the dog you want to help actually arrives with you, he’s a mess.


All is not lost

This is not to say that things can’t be turned round. I work with many students who’ve found themselves - all unwittingly - in just this situation.

Their generosity has resulted in them taking an unsuitable animal into their home.

And I’m happy to say that in all the cases I’ve worked with, we’ve managed to make huge progress!

 
 

While the dog may never be what others may expect of a dog - lollopy, easy-going, loves everyone, enjoys everything - the owner learns so much that makes the whole enterprise rewarding for both human and dog.

It’s all about connection, and the relationship of mutual trust they build.

And, if you take the trouble to learn what these people did, then you too can have a great outcome, with many years of companionship ahead of you!

“He has certainly blossomed from the abused boy he was when he was first fostered! What you taught us about walking on leash, meeting other dogs etc. made a lot of sense and following your advice has worked wonders for our walks - we both now enjoy them and he is a lot less nervous. Once again many thanks - you have been a brilliant help and a breath of fresh air!” ML  

“.. when I got him he was scared of everything. Thank you so much for your support which has enabled me to train a 4 year old rescue sprocker the way life should be - fun and running free.” CF

“Your training is great and makes a lot of sense. Thanks again, what you’re doing is great, you can feel so isolated with these issues and you are providing a much-needed lifeline for people.  Every time I read these lessons I get a renewed sense of calm and my resolve is strengthened. This support is helping me to really focus on helping my little rescue dog. Thank you Beverley, you are amazing.” EO

“This is a radical change in attitude, thanks to you, and has led to an improved relationship.” AH

Want to get some of what they got?

You can start with this free Growly Dog ecourse, enjoy our free Masterclass for anxious dogs

 

And check out this boxset of the whole Growly Dog series of books!

 

My dog is barking mad!

“My dog is barking - how do I stop him?” is a frequent request.

And while I’d love to say, “Do this, and your dog will be quiet,” it’s actually not possible without a lot more investigation. A diagnostic report is needed! To decode your dog, we need to find the error code!

So the first thing you need to do is note WHEN she’s barking. You need to keep a barking diary for a few days.

When you’ve got this down (and it may surprise you when you look into it) you can now note WHY she’s barking.

What triggers the barking?

 

 

Until you can work out WHY your dog is barking, there is no quick recipe for changing this.

 
 
 
 

 

Find some answers

Once you’ve found out WHEN your dog is barking, WHY she’s barking, and WHAT triggers the barking, now you’re in a position to find out how to change this barking into something you’d prefer. And that’s not necessarily silence!

If your dog is alarm-barking because they can hear an intruder, you don’t want to extinguish this practice! You probably want to be able to acknowledge it, thank your dog, and then for her to hand responsibility over to you, i.e. by shutting her mouth.

Keep in mind that some barking is very useful. I can ask my dogs to bark on cue, which may be just what’s needed to attract someone’s attention, or to communicate to my old, hard-of-hearing, dog.

I can tell you that Lacy, pictured at the top, loves barking. So when we go to an empty beach or forest, she can fly about barking to her heart’s content. It’s how she expresses excitement and pleasure.

Barking isn’t RIGHT or WRONG. If a particular aspect of your dog’s barking does not please you, it may help to see it like we see weeds, as a flower growing in the wrong place!

And if your dog has been practicing this (annoying) barking for years - then you’re going to have to find the cause, and focus on eliminating either the cause, or the response. This may take time - it all depends on how much you want the change!

So, over to you: Find out what’s going on, then we can look at remedies together.


If you discover the barking is from Fear, or what you perceive as Aggression, then hop over to our free Masterclass for Growly Dogs here






And if it’s for anything else at all, this where you want to start:

 

 

 

How can I stop my dog pulling on lead?


As I wrote in my post “How do I stop my dog doing xyz?” back in July, this is a very common question I get. 

And as I wrote … back in July (and many other times!) to have your dog STOP doing one thing, you have to teach him how to START another.

But so many methods of teaching your dog to walk nicely on lead are punishment-based. They don’t involve any teaching at all - just yank, stop, and turn. How can anyone enjoy a walk like that?

This is why people write to me. They’ve tried these daft suggestions - trying to STOP their dog - and have had zero success.

They tend to blame the dog (he’s “stubborn”, “stupid”, and all the rest) and never pause to see that they have to do something themselves to change this unhappy state of affairs!

 

Let’s Go!

So today I want to give you some of the first chapter of Let’s Go! Enjoy Companionable Walks with your Brilliant Family Dog, Book 3 in the series Essential Skills for your Brilliant Family Dog

“You’re ready for your daily walk. You are full of hope because you know today is going to be the day your dog walks nicely beside you without pulling your arm out of its socket. You are deluded. Yep, it’s going to be just the same as usual.

 

Lead on = Carthorse mode.

 

She nearly pulls you over as you step over the threshold. She strains away from you while you try to lock the door. You reach the roadside, and it’s head down, PULL! She’s choking and spluttering, she’s scrab- bling along the pavement. She’s lurching and weaving - this is no fun for either of you!

I know you’ve tried lots of gadgets and methods to try to make things better - things suggested by people in the park, by friends, family members, and even trainers - some against your better judgment. But why aren’t any of them working? You’ve got collars and leads to beat the band - some of them designed to inflict pain or make holes in your dog’s neck. These devices are sold to prevent pulling, but they just seem to encourage her to pull harder. 

I’m guessing that you have been trying to teach your dog not to pull. This is sadly doomed to failure. If there’s one thing dogs don’t under- stand, it’s not doing something.

Dogs are doers. They do things. They can’t not do something. It makes no sense to them. What we have to do is show them something else to do instead of pulling.

Many people - and probably you too - have successfully taught their dog not to jump up for a treat by simply hanging on to the morsel until the dog is sitting. She can’t jump and sit at the same time, so the jumping dies out.

We can use the exact same system for teaching your dog to walk nicely beside you on a loose lead. Like sitting when a treat is on offer, keeping the lead loose becomes the default behaviour for your dog when she’s walking with you. She can’t pull ahead and be by your leg at the same time, so the pulling dies out.

Really, yes! It will work for you too!

I’ve taught this system to hundreds of puppies and dogs, and I’m always amazed at how quickly the dog gets it - once the owner gets it!

You don’t need any funny gadgets or kit - though I do have help for extreme kamikaze pullers - and there is no force, coercion, or intimi- dation involved. You’re not telling your dog, “You’ll do this because I say so.” You’re saying, “You do this because you like doing it!”

You got a dog to be your companion, not to fight with. You wanted to enjoy the great outdoors. You wanted a reason to get out every day to meet people, to visit new places, to get fit, and maybe shift a few pounds.

None of this is going to happen if your walks are a tussle and a misery!”

 

Go and check this book out - you can read a sample here, or listen to the audiobook here.

But you need to do SOMETHING!

Expecting your dog to change, miraculously, by having the neck pulled off him is never going to work!

Enjoy your walks together, in comfort and harmony.

Yes - even your dog can do this … just try it, as these people did, and see for yourself:

 

“Lexie is responding to the lead work beautifully - still early days but it's wonderful to walk her without making one arm longer than the other! All I needed was training - once I started doing it right she caught on no problems - thankyou.” LCS and her Cocker-poo

“Dodger is doing really well with his loose lead walking. I am so proud of him, I can't thank you enough for your help and support.” AD and her Staffy

“Lois pulled like a train on the lead, very strong for a little’un - now she has impeccable manners and walks like a dream. Has become the envy of our neighbourhood!” CR and her Mini Schnauzer

“Hi Beverley, I just wanted to tell you that your method of loose lead walking is brilliant! I have struggled for a year and a half with Molly lead walking and finally a method which works!!!!” KS and her Spaniel