I often hear it described as “attention-seeking” when a dog is . . . seeking attention!
She may be dropping toys in your lap all day long, she may be resisting sleep during the day, she may be chewing things up, barking . . . There are all manner of things she may do to get your attention.
But why do you think your dog needs to do anything to get your attention, never mind by doing destructive and annoying things?
It’s because it works!
Dogs do what works
And the worst things usually get the most attention. She’s learnt that.
Or perhaps I should say, you’ve taught her that. 😎
And this begs the question, “Why does your dog have to jump through hoops to connect with you?”
Not “attention-seeking” but “connection-seeking”
It would be better if we were to take a different view of this.
How about changing your perception from an “attention-seeking” dog to a “connection-seeking” dog?
🐾 You chose to have a dog.
🐾 You chose this dog.
🐾 Why does she have to try all these things to earn your affection?
Busybusybusy
We are all busy, all the time. We get swept along from one day to the next, and unless something breaks or stops working, we don’t pay it any heed.
It’s a sad state of affairs if this includes the people in your household!
And dogs are people too.
We have to make an effort to fit what is worthwhile into our day. Maybe just two minutes here, three minutes there. That may be enough to give your loyal companion the connection she craves.
Schedule some fun!
So how can you schedule some fun for your dog and you? [HINT: dogs love getting the chance to use their brains - how about some trick training?]
